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Healing

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  It is believed by many medical doctors that hatred, anger and lack of love and compassion are the reason for many of our physical sickness.   Recently I heard a lecture of one famous doctor on cure and prevention of cancer.   He concluded his lecture by telling the best way to prevent cancer is to have a compassionate heart, love every one and forgive every one. The link between emotions, particularly negative ones like hatred, anger, and stress, and physical health is a topic of ongoing research and discussion within the medical and psychological communities. While it's not universally accepted that these emotions directly cause specific illnesses like cancer, there is evidence to suggest that chronic stress and negative emotions can contribute to overall health problems. Stress and negative emotions can have physiological effects on the body, including increased levels of certain hormones and inflammation, which over time can contribute to various health issues. C...

Children don’t need chocolates

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  Few years ago one day evening while walking in Chennai streets, we (my wife & myself) came across a children’s home (orphanage). We thought of going inside. How can we meet strange children with empty hand? So we bought half a kilo of éclairs chocolates from a nearby shop and went inside. While walking in, we heard a gentle voice, “where are you going”? Looking around we saw a lady through a window. We went near and told her that we would like to meet those little children inside. What is in your hands? She asked. Chocolates. The lady told us, we have plenty of food here. Every now and then we receive calls from leading bakeries and chocolate companies to supply us. Normally we say no to such call. Thanks for coming here with a good intention, but our children don’t need chocolates. We were puzzled and blinking. Then came her words, they need your love, physical touch, smile and laughter, your presence. She requested us to spend at least one hour with them. With doubts and ...

Worse the situation, stronger must be our love for each other.

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  An 80 years old man went to a hospital at 8:30 am. From the time he came, he was so nervous. He told the nurse that he has a work at 9:00, so he has to leave as soon as possible. The nurse told that it would take an hour to remove the stiches from his finger and she asked him to wait. But that old man kept starring the clock. The nurse removed the stiches and started the dressing.  The nurse asked him that where he wanted to go at 9:00. The old man replied that his wife was sick for several years and she was admitted in the nearby nursing home.  The nurse asked him if his wife will be worried because of his delay. The old man replied that, she had lost her memory, so she won’t be able to recognize him. He also said she couldn’t talk to him for 5 years. The nurse exclaimed that, then why are you visiting your wife every day. The old man replied her with a smile on his face, yes she could not recognize me, but I know her very well. Worse the situation, stronger must be ou...

Robin Bird

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  Do you know that birds also have friends just like us?   If a robin bird has got some problem all other robin birds will come forward to help.   If a robin mother bird dies all other robin birds will feed their young ones.   We must learn from these birds to help one another and to love one another. Yes, it is absolutely right! Many animals, including birds, display social behaviors that indicate they form bonds and friendships within their own species. Observations and studies have shown that some bird species exhibit behaviors that could be interpreted as acts of kindness, cooperation, and support for one another. These behaviors are often seen among members of the same species, and they can include helping with nesting, raising young, defending against predators, and sharing food. Birds are known for their complex social structures and communication methods, which allow them to form strong connections within their communities. For instance: Cooperative Nesti...

Vigilance

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While it is true that self-interest is a natural human inclination, it is also important to recognize that humans are capable of empathy, compassion, and altruism. While we may sometimes act in our own self-interest, we also have the capacity to consider the needs and feelings of others. Regarding the concept of vigilance and carefulness, it can be valuable to exercise mindfulness in our interactions with others. Being aware of how our words and actions can impact those around us is a responsible approach to maintaining healthy relationships and avoiding causing harm unintentionally. Practicing mindfulness, self-reflection, and seeking guidance can provide a framework for personal growth and ethical behavior. However, it is important to remember that individuals may interpret and apply these principles differently based on their own beliefs and understanding. Ultimately, while self-interest may be a part of human nature, it is possible to cultivate empathy, compassion, and cons...